Why do we have to fake it until we make it...?
Why can't we all just deal with what's going on in our lives and find healthy ways of coping? Is it because we don't encourage it?
-grief, disappointment, fear, anger and regret are just a few things we have all experienced at some point in our lives.
It's almost as if the world wants you to hold onto what's hurting you; keeping it bottled up inside. I challenge us to find healthy ways to face what's bothering you and set yourself free.
The way we express our emotions towards something says a lot more about you than it does about the circumstance or the situation you're in.
Once your wounds heal, you'll be able to express your emotions simply, respectfully and directly.
Negative emotions only causes more problems when we hang onto it or express it disrespectfully or in unhealthy ways. -if we pay attention to what our emotions are trying to tell us and take positive action; you've used your emotions wisely.
-notice and observe your feelings
-decide what isn't right and take action to address i
t instead of perpetuating the emotion
-fear is just a distraction and instills more fear, which could lead to anxiety and depression.
How debilitating? -to not be able to function enough to perform your basic needs...
ex: laundry, cleaning your room, building healthy relationships or simply being on time for work...
Victim energy or having a victimized state of mind only distracts you from addressing the real problem(s). Open up...and let it out!!!!
Then you have shame; which may leave you feeling exposed, vulnerable and worthless...this is a downward spiral. Over time, shame causes us to hide our true selves deeper and deeper so others can't see how we really feel. Emotions like shame and fear lead us to hide. We hide behind self-pity, self righteousness, perfectionism, anger, addictions, blame, rationalizing, analyzing, etc. but these defenses block and prevent us from healing.
Anxiety and guilt comes from the shame of not doing what society and other people tell us we
should do.
Friends, this is not a how-to project: I want to simply challenge you/us to question yourselves on how you choose to deal with adversity in your lives... And remember, wellness comes from within.
"If it costs you your peace, it's too expensive" -author unknown
-Stay Blessed... <3